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(Message started by: Eva on Mar 20th, 2006, 9:24pm)

Title: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by Eva on Mar 20th, 2006, 9:24pm
well... i've been doing a lot of thinking and planning over the past several months and i feel it's time for me to pass on the site and board to someone else and move on. this has been a really difficult decision... i put so much into the place for the past 6 years... it became another baby for me.

i'm still struggling with physical problems... mainly one being what they thought was arthritis in my neck. after having an MRI, it turns out it's not. i have 3 discs in my neck that are deteriorating... 2 of the discs are pressing on some nerves which is causing me to have pain i've never quite experienced before � :P �for example... i had to go via ambulence to the ER after passing out from pain a week or so ago. i don't think i've ever passed out from pain. the spine doctor doesn't reccomend the surgery that can be done for this problem due to my age and the fact that i'd probably still have pain after that. the chances are very high that i'd be right back in the same place i am now after time so that would make having the surgery almost moot. the chances of the pressure on the nerves relieving at some point (after enough detoriation) is a much better solution to wait for, if you can believe that � :-/ �so... no cures for a good long while. i have to start in a pain management program where they'll try cortisol shots to the neck and fun stuff like that. right now i'm relying on vicodin for the bad times, skelaxin pretty regularily and capascien. i still deal with a lot of fatigue and weakness from my medications and just trying to live every day along with this pain issue. the rest of the time is devoted to my daughters and they aren't getting enough of me as it is. so there's just no time for me to be here much anymore too � :(

working on the computer does not work for me anymore. i'm in pain within 10 minutes and if i aggravate my neck, it gets bad. then i'm back to puking... and the new fun these days is the passing out. we're thru with one thing, on to the next, huh? � :shakehead: � i guess if pain management isn't enough i can try the surgery and hope for the best. � �

this site deserves to be run a lot better than i'm able to run it. �i just don't see me doing another record. i'm not going to be able to handle the huge amount of work this site and board requires and the emotional turmoil that goes along with it all. i feel that i'm not stable enough emotionally to handle it also.

it's time for me to let go. i've learned so much over these years... how to run a website, a board... how to deal with people and a whole lot of weird stuff too �lol some of my best and worst memories are here. i'm not sure if it was worth it or not, but it's surely an experience that i'll never forget. i'll miss running things � :(

there's a lot i'd like to say, but i just don't have the words... i'm afraid it'll all come out wrong or someone will be offended or something crazy like that. but i want to thank the people that stand by the site during the good and bad times. you're what makes running the site worth it and fun. i know there are some bitter people out there and a lot of false gossip about me and the site, but some of you guys knew better and i really appreciate that.

i've put a lot of thought and time into a new administrator. their name is Adela. they've been here as long as i have (since 1998) i think and know the site very well. i know that they love the place and will carry it on with the same philosophies and rules. nothing has changed here... you just have a new admin and moderators. i know that in the past you had the unpleasant experience of someone i DID NOT authorize to run the place and never would've allowed... who was not in a good place emotionally. i assure you that isn't going to happen again. you have a fellow long time fan whose been here with us for a long time. i've filled in the new admin on just about everything and will be here for them when i can for as long as i'm a goo fan with a computer.

i'm still very much a fan and will be coming by here for news. it'll be fun to just come to fart around here � :D �i'd love to hear from some of you so email me sometime... �[email protected]

i love you guys... i'll see ya around though, k?

i know this is really long... sorry about that... but it's been 6 years, ya know?

:'( �gosh... this is so hard... i just hope everything will be ok. it's hard to let go..  


Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by Johns_chick on Mar 20th, 2006, 9:44pm
Aww Eva i am so sorry and you will be soooo missed! The board won't be the same without you! And we love you too! I hope you will get better Eva and hope to hear from you again! Love Always Kayla~ :-* :'(

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by ShanGooFan on Mar 20th, 2006, 9:47pm
WOW Eva,

I know you have to do what's best for you and your health but I just can't imagine WOG without you.:cry:

Here's wishing you and your family nothing but good things. I hope you pop in every now and again and say HI.

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by the_girl_right_next_to_him on Mar 20th, 2006, 9:55pm
Eva,

You're a super star.   You're lucky I'm not sending you along a private message about your "fartin' around" comment...LOL! ;D

Do what's best for you.  It won't be the same around here without you.  

All the Goo Fans here - including me - are so thankful for you efforts over the years.  Good luck, Good health and Good times to you!

-Michael

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by googirldownunder on Mar 21st, 2006, 12:12am
Hi Eva,

Despite my sporadic and long absences from the board, it's always been part & parcel to return and see you as the WOG trusty Moderator (aka Master & Commander)

You're going to be sorely missed, and Shannon said, I hope you pop in occasionally and say "Hi".

I send you my best wishes for a speedy recovery, and hope that you won't have to endure too much pain and difficulty.

Be well, stay GOO

Rock On   :rockin:

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by True2Goo on Mar 21st, 2006, 6:44am
Many Thanks Eva for all your hard work! I wish you well in the future, take care of YOU!~ Christa  :-*

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by tkc1989 on Mar 21st, 2006, 7:06am
Awww it's not gonna be the same without you Eva!!! :'( But I hope everything gets better soon and that we still hear from ya to see what you're up to!!! Tim :flower:xx

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by partygoober on Mar 21st, 2006, 7:15am
:(



stay in touch, yo

~Kristyn~

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by Caroline on Mar 21st, 2006, 7:21am
Oh Eva! I'm so sorry you have so much pain and burden. You will be sorely missed  (I can't believe it's been 6 years!) but it's important that you think of yourself first. Please take care!

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by morganyc on Mar 21st, 2006, 9:25am
Eva, you and I have had our moments, but you know I've always wished you the best. I can't thank you enough for all your years of hard work. It stinks that you are in so much pain and I hope you find relief soon. Make sure you stop by often and say hello, please don't be a stranger.

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by nmf016 on Mar 21st, 2006, 11:15am
Hi Eva,
   I'm sorry to hear that you have been having so much health trouble.  Like everyone said, I hope you get well and we will miss you.  Thanks for all you've done over the last 6 years.  I don't know too many people who could have done what you did for us.  I hope you'll stop by whenever you have a chance.
-Nicole

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by sympathy_0 on Mar 21st, 2006, 2:56pm
AWW!! Poor eva..I totally hope you get better! Your totally hot! :).... You will be missed..

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by LandofOzGooFan on Mar 21st, 2006, 5:48pm
OH EVA... :'(   I am so sorry to hear about all the problems you've been going through and I wish you didn't have to give "all this"  ;D up but I hope not doing this will relieve some of your stress. We will miss you more than you will know but I am sure you are leaving us in good hands.   :)  Amory

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by Fuelie on Mar 21st, 2006, 6:54pm
I am sorry to hear you are leaving. I think I have almost been here as long as you have.
I hope you get to feeling better and stop by and say hello sometime.

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by rzezniksangel on Mar 21st, 2006, 8:31pm
Eva, you will be missed.  Please come back and visit with us.  You know you'll always be part of our little Goo family.  We love you and wish you all the best!!!

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by PattyGoo on Mar 22nd, 2006, 7:34am
Eva,
Take care of yourself.  You've done a fantastic job with this site over the years, and you can be proud of that.  Just as your kids will grow up and venture out on their own some day, think of this board as a child growing up, but know that it will always be here for you.  There have been other moderators here before you, but you are really the one that made it a home.  You'll always be 'the mommy'.   ;D

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by januaryfriend27 on Mar 22nd, 2006, 11:15am
Wow, I am shocked. Since the 1st day I came to this board, you have always been here as moderator...the one who keeps us all in check LOL.

You will be missed deeply. Like everyone else has said, pop in and say hi, post often.

I am sorry to hear of all the pain and turmoil you are going thru. I with you all the best and I hope everything turns around for you.

:(

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by kymbreleigh on Mar 22nd, 2006, 3:51pm
Oh Eva(((((((HUGS)))))) this saddens me a great deal.You have made a great place here for all of us and I will miss you as I am sure everyone else will too.I pray you will get better one way or another.God bless you~Kimberly Marin

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by Pon on Mar 23rd, 2006, 11:02am
I'm really sorry about your situation. Life just sucks sometimes..I'm young and have my own problems....why?

I'd really appreciate the time u put on this board. You did a great job! I was a meanie at first, but u were always nice and understanding.

I wish you the best of luck...let the goo be with you!

Pon

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by DWG on Mar 23rd, 2006, 11:46am
The most important thing is to take care of Number One.
Now, log off that computer, and get well!   :)

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by Skkyer on Mar 23rd, 2006, 12:57pm
Eva,

Sending lots of positive thoughts your way.  I haven't been here very long compared to others, but I wanted thank you also.

Hugs,
Skkyer

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by Christian on Mar 24th, 2006, 4:36am
Damnit, I can't believe I'm just noticing this!

I cannot believe the amount of shit you've had thrown your way Eva. God owes you big time. I really hope this resolves itself quickly for you. I marvel at your ability to keep moving forward. I don't know if I'll ever have your amount of strength. If you ever feel the need to talk to an impartial observer who understands(at least partially), you have my email.

You try to be happy, eh?

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by JaniGoo on Mar 25th, 2006, 12:28am
Eva,
I want to thank you for all your hard work and dedicated time you have put into this board. Because of you, this board has become a very special place in my heart (and many others) Thank you so much! Please stay in touch and wishing you the best of luck and hoping you will be on the road to recovery soon. God Bless.  
Janis

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by caineggd on Mar 25th, 2006, 7:13am
holy shit... evas leaving!!! i have been gone too long. crazyness. eva has been here running this board since I first got on... home from school sick one day when i was like 12......
even though i havent really been around lately.... when i get internet back to my house i know ill be MAD missin havin you running these boards. you managed to keep these boards clean of all the BS that seems to go around... we couldnt have asked for better.

im really really sorry to hear about your troubles. my 'adopted mother' ironically has almost the same EXACT problems but due to fiber mialsia(sp?)... so although i don't really know what you're going through i can imagine and im really really really sorry. i hope you have someone there with you to take care of you, bring you coffee and breakfast in bed, whatever you may need... and i wish you the best of luck. may god watch over you closely and provide much much needed healing.

best wishes. you will be greatly missed. and thank you for all that you've done over the years.

now go get some rest and make people cater to your EVERY need....

P&L

-C

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by BeaTheGooFan on Mar 26th, 2006, 1:22am
Eva,

I just wanted to let you know that this board was the first Goo family I found and I cherish that very much. You helped to make this a welcoming and fun community that I love to come and visit everyday! Thank you for all your hard work, blood sweet and tears! WOG has a very special place in my heart and you have a big part in that.

I wish you better health and hope that you are blessed with family and friends to see you through your recovery.

You will be greatly missed! But I look forward to seeing you pop-up now and again.  :grouphug:

*Bea  

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by dizzygooDOTcom on Mar 26th, 2006, 10:12am
Best wishes on a speedy recovery, Eva. My Dad has similar problems to the ones you describe and I know the terrible pain he is in many times.

Are you still sticking around to post?

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by TruexBlue on Mar 27th, 2006, 11:04am
Hey Rock Chick!

I don't know what to say because I don't know you personally, but I do wish the best for you and I hope you continue to listen to GGD and the songs as well as the band members can shed some kind of joy into your life.

Stay True to Who You Are, Keep Your Dreams Alive, And Forever Rock On!

Let Love In,
Triest

:jammin:

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by [Joelage] on Mar 28th, 2006, 1:22am
Eva,

It saddens me that you are quitting, but more so that youre not feelin 100% :(

Please Eva, even though i'm on the otherside of the world, if theres anything i can do to help, please ask.

it would be awesome to hear from you every now and then  though...

love ya heaps eva..

Joel.

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by iris3732 on Mar 28th, 2006, 6:59pm
You have been the best moderator. Thanks for all your hard work ;) We will miss you around here.

Thanks for appointing a mod that you approve of, too :)

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by Saz_Goo on Mar 29th, 2006, 2:41pm
Aw, Eva, that's sad news.  :grouphug: Just want to thank you for everything you've done for this board over the last 6 years... wow... where's the time gone?? Anyway, as others have said, you made this a great place to gather with other Goo fans, and I've appreciated it loads. I hope things improve for you as much as possible, and best wishes for everything you in the future. Keep smiling! :thumbsup:

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by crazy4goo on Mar 30th, 2006, 5:36pm
you will be missed Eva!  Wishing you all good things to come your way :)

Sherri

Title: Re: My WOG "Resignation"......
Post by pink boa lady on Apr 9th, 2006, 6:40pm
awww i'm so sad now.  you've been great eva! thanks for all you did with the site and board.  

take care of yourself!!



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